Cherokee Trail

As your children grow up it is natural for them to challenge you.  Sometimes, it seems easier to just let them have their way. But all kids need limits, and they need their parents to guide them.  Here are some secrets of effective discipline. Make the rules clear- Children do best when they know what to expect.  Talk about family rules, explaining the consequences clearly. Example: “Put your bicycle away when you’ve finished riding it.  If you don’t, you won’t be allowed to ride it the next day.” As your youngsters learn how to read, write down the rules and put them on the refrigerator as a reminder. Be consistent and firm- You can expect kids to “test” the rules from time to time. When they do, try to stand your ground and apply the set consequences. Being firm and consistent lets them know that you mean business. Give positive feedback- Try to focus more on your children’s right actions than on their wrong ones.  This will encourage them to try even harder to behave. So, when you see behavior you’d like repeated, let your kids know. Example: “Thanks for hanging up your coat and backpack!” *From 2008 Resources for Educators, a division of Aspen Publishers, Inc.
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Hello Parents & Guardians! There are exciting parent events in February and March scheduled. First we have Kyla Jones presenting on LGTBQ+. As a therapist in private practice, Kyla specializes in working with children, adolescents, and their families, particularly focusing on individuals who have experienced trauma and those struggling with challenges related to sexuality and gender. Light refreshments will be served at this free event. Kyla will be at Parker Library Monday February 11th at 10:00 AM @ Parker Library Event room A. Parents can click here to register. Secondly we have parent night in which Vaping and cigarette usage will be discussed Tuesday, February 12th at 6:30 PM @ Ponderosa High School Auditorium. Along with the Douglas County Sheriff's Office, the Parker Area Counselors for Prevention will talk with parents about the latest trends in vaping in our community. We will show you what devices look like, what signs to look for, and give you strategies for talking with your teen about the latest trend that's causing quite a stir with our nation's youth. Parents can click here to register. We are continuing the topic of substance abuse prevention in March by hosting a presentation by the Douglas County Sheriff's Department YESS (Youth Education and Safety in Schools) officers. This event will be Wednesday, March 6th at 10:00AM @ Parker Library Event Hall B. Light refreshments will be served at this free event. Parents can click here to register. Thanks! - Jane Steiner, Ed.S.